The Ultimate Queer Safe Space: Curating the Perfect Home Sanctuary
Whether you work from home, entertain regularly, or simply like to bask in quiet tranquility alone, our spaces are a reflection of who we are and what we value. Whether you’re looking to elevate your living room, have a small space, or are tired of the disorganization, interior decorating can seem like a confusing maze of options and trends.
Together, we’re going to cut through the clutter with these five tips to make your home feel more like a place you want to be. I’m Christopher La Fleur, a fine artist and connoisseur of all things beautiful. Let’s dive in.
Your home reflects your heart and your head. Have you ever felt like you have a lot of … stuff? You probably do, and it’s time to let go. We may not realize it, but a lot of the things we carry around are actually remnants of emotional baggage. That’s not you anymore, honey. That old band poster from your ex? Bye, girl. Unworn ugly sweaters from your grandmother? Be gone.
Take time to go through your belongings and keep what truly matters to you. Organize them, and be intentional about it. If you have objects in storage that carry bad memories or that you’re keeping for fear of losing a sentimental attachment, it’s time to make space for yourself in your life. This is an empowering process!
Make sure the organizational systems you put in place are easy to manage long term. If they aren’t, you’ll end up in the same chaotic situation you’re trying to fix.
Use all five senses. When curating your space, give consideration to the vibe you’re going for, and use all five senses when doing so. Soft palettes, plush pillows, and cozy knit blankets could be your solution to an overwhelming work life. Candles and oil diffusers will warm up your living situation and give it ambiance. Give life to your apartment with a few houseplants.
Overhead lighting is the worst. Consider getting some pendant lights, and put them in out-of-the-way places where they’ll uplight the space without being overwhelming. I use LED strip lights on top of my cabinets and under the bed to elevate the lighting in my own home.
Presentation is everything. Maybe you collect movie posters; maybe you’re drawn to the arts or love to cook. These things are awesome, but showmanship matters. Ditch the stick pins, and frame your posters and photos. Organize the cupboards and sundries with matching containers. Add privacy and style by dressing up your windows with affordable curtains and sheers.
If you have low ceilings, or you’re trying to accentuate dramatic vaulted ones, use a floor-to-ceiling drape to bring long lines and verticality into your home. It doesn’t have to feel like a cave.
Small space magic. A lot of us have small spaces. Rent is soaring, and we do what we can with what we have. After you’ve decluttered and donated your unwanted objects, it’s time to maximize your space. For tiny closets, use slim profile hangers to free up room. In the summer, box up your winter coats and sweaters when they’re not in use. Shoe organizers that hang from closet rods are a great way to organize your accessories so you can see what you have. Maximize the unused spaces under your bed and sofa with storage totes.
You can find a variety of affordable storage ottomans, tables, and seating online. Wayfair is my go-to place for trendy storage furniture.
Eye candy is good for the soul. Even if you rent, you can elevate your space without losing your security deposit. These days, you can find a wide range of removable wall papers and textured panels for your walls. Use these to create an eye-catching accent wall. Likewise, you can use a grouping of interesting photos, art, and mismatched frames to create a cute and eye-catching feature wall. Fill your home with beautiful artwork, or spend a weekend day making your own.
If you don’t have a flair for creativity, Denver is home to some incredible local queer artists and creators. Shop local and find art at local vendor and maker’s markets. Looking for something special or custom? Check out my website to get your own special artwork today at: christopherlafleurarts.com
Photo courtesy of Christopher La Fleur
