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Gender Not Listed : Not Queer Enough? A Nonbinary Perspective

Where it All Began About five years ago, I started my thesis on nonbinary identity.…

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Tales of a Fierce, Fat, Fit, Femme: On the Naughty List and No Shame

We all have mixed feelings about the holidays. Some have too much trauma associated or…

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Tales of a Fierce, Fat, Fit, Femme: Power Outside the Binary

When I first started the column, I worried about claiming certain parts of my identity…

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Tales of a Fierce, Fat, Fit Femme: Voyage to Size Euphoria

A few Halloweens ago, I was excited to dress up in Star Trek cosplay. I wasn’t…

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Tales of a Fierce, Fat, Fit, Femme: Deserving of Beauty

I have a weird relationship with the concept of being sexy.  This, I’m sure, is…

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Tales of a Fierce, Fat, Fit, Femme: Dancing with Myself

As a little girl, there was nothing I loved more than ballet. I loved absolutely…