Here’s the deal: I want to be good at flirting. I mean, I get the basics — a little eye contact, a little smile, don’t be a jerk — but after that, I am totally lost.
You know, I love this question because I love lube, I think you should love lube, and honestly, one of my few “rules” to having good sex is lube is love.
I’m a little worried about how to be intimate with him, since we haven’t been together in a long time, and didn’t develop our relationship at a normal pace. Any thoughts?
First let me say that this isn’t just you — hundreds of thousands of people, of all genders and orientations, are in this boat. Our sex drives go up and down throughout our lives.