Investigating Harassment and Bullying in Nex Benedict’s School

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A tragic incident at Choctaw High School in Oklahoma led to the death of Nex Benedict, a nonbinary student. Benedict’s passing has brought attention to the ongoing bullying, harassment, and discrimination at Owasso Public Schools. Benedict’s death officially ruled a suicide, followed by a violent fight at the school. The altercation left them hospitalized with severe injuries. The autopsy ruled their death a suicide, but Benedict’s family has called for an independent investigation. This dreadful incident raised awareness and demanded accountability from the district. Owasso schools have failed to address the ongoing harassment that Benedict faced along with many of their classmates.

The mess at Owasso schools has sparked widespread outrage. Over forty students staged a walkout protesting the district’s lack of response to years of harassment complaints. The protest highlighted Owasso Public Schools’ consistent lack of response to reports of bullying and harassment. LGBTQ+ students in particular have been let down. The district’s response to reports of bullying and harassment was described as “deliberately indifferent” by the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights (OCR). A quick look into the school launched an official investigation into the school’s handling of harassment cases.

This investigation began in March 2024. It uncovered a troubling pattern of inaction by Owasso school administrators. The OCR found that the district had repeatedly violated Title IX, the federal law that prohibits sex-based discrimination in education. Despite numerous complaints from students, including reports of sexual harassment, bullying, and even instances of alleged grooming by a teacher, the district took no action. The investigation revealed that Owasso Public Schools lacked a proper reporting process and had no effective way of tracking harassment complaints. This indifference left students vulnerable and unsupported.

An alarming discovery was a “pattern of inconsistent responses” to reports of bullying and harassment. Many complaints have been met with little to no response at all. In the case of Benedict’s death, the district’s failure to act after the February fight exemplified a larger issue. Their death was preceded by multiple reports of “sex-based slurs, harassment, and physical assault.” According to the OCR, the school’s handling of the situation was “informal and inadequate.” By ignoring the issues at hand, the schools furthered the trauma experienced by Benedict and other students.

The OCR’s investigation also revealed that Owasso schools had failed to meet Title IX requirements in several key areas. Violations include not providing students with the ability to file complaints or receive individualized support. They provide no access services to address the harm the students face in their schools. The investigation noted that the district had only formally investigated two Title IX violations in the past three years. The fact that many more had been reported makes the true lack of accountability and apparent indifference clear to the community.

In response to the findings, the district entered into a voluntary resolution agreement with the OCR. The agreement did not include an admission of wrongdoing from the school district. However, it outlined a plan to address complaints of bullying and harassment. It also ensures compliance with Title IX. The district agreed to review all past harassment complaints and meet with affected students. Additionally, Owasso must submit reports to the OCR starting in the 2025-2026 school year. This will ensure that reports of harassment are properly addressed.

While the resolution is an important step toward ensuring a safer environment for all students, many advocates believe it is too late for students like Benedict. “Nothing can undo the damage that’s already happened in Owasso, including the tragic death of Nex Benedict,” says Mark Pocan, chair of the Congressional Equality Caucus. “But this agreement is an important step toward preventing future violations and protecting students’ rights.”

For many, the situation in Owasso has sparked a demand for more effective responses to harassment in schools, particularly for marginalized students. The death of Nex Benedict is a heartbreaking outcome of a system that failed to protect a vulnerable young person. The actions taken by the OCR offer hope that future generations of students will be better supported against discrimination and violence.

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