How to Throw a Gay Bachelor Party

Need to throw the perfect gay bachelor party on a budget? No worries, we’ve got you covered!

Planning a gay bachelor party in Denver has just gotten much more fun. This celebratory event can be an epic bash on a budget for both the grooms and their friends with just a few tips. Once the perfect engagement is completed,  the best man or best friend gets the fun responsibility of planning the Bachelor party. You can make sure to meet everyone’s expectations by getting male strippers for entertainment, a big penis cake, food, drinks, and great music. A house party is the most popular of all bachelor parties but, just one of many options. So let’s take a quick dive into local ideas for planning a gay bachelor party on a budget in Denver. 

One exciting aspect of a gay bachelor party is the possibilities it can bring. While straight bachelor parties typically are separate for the wife and groom, having both male and female strippers to accommodate both preferences, gay bachelor parties can toy with the idea of a conjoined event catered towards both men. A conjoined party allows for a night to remember to kick off a lifetime of memories together. So visualize customizing your own pop-up strip club with lights, music, food, drinks, and two hunky police officers that peel off their uniforms while dollar bills rain down on them and are stuffed into their booty shorts so far it’s like someone was looking for some change.

Weddings are magical and memorable, but, of course, expensive. In throwing a gay bachelor party, having the absolute most amount of fun while spending the least amount of money is a priority. This leaves more money to spend on the wedding or honeymoon without sacrificing any of the fun.

Destinations

Step one of any party planning is finding a good location. Being in a central location close enough to party areas while remaining on a budget is challenging.  

Downtown Denver is an ideal area for a bachelor party, with its endless array of parties, dining, and nature there is bound to be something for everyone. No worries if downtown is too hectic or expensive; the many surrounding cities are close enough that one can experience downtown without the commitment. The party doesn’t have to be centralized downtown, as the strip company Bare Assets can have strippers available to attend, and spice up a party at a house, hotel, or Airbnb, up and down the front range including Colorado ski towns within three hours of the Denver metro area

Airbnb is a cost-efficient tool for finding a fun but conveniently located place to stay in the Denver area. With an array of destination options for under $99 a night, Airbnb is a great starting point in finding a place to stay. 

Entertainment 

When thinking of a bachelor party, people’s heads commonly go to exotic entertainment. Having good entertainment is essential for a memorable bachelor party. Whether it be a concert or games, doing something fun ensures a great time for the grooms and guests. Denver has several unique party places, some being geared explicitly towards gay people. Charlie’s is a western-themed gay bar featuring male dancers on certain days which can be found on their website. The Clocktower Cabaret also provides an assortment of entertainment including burlesque, drag, and comedy.

Of course, it is hard to have a bachelor party without strippers, but Bare Assets Denver Party Strippers has you covered offering party packages and more. They hold an array of party packages perfectly suited for a lively gay bachelor party including the best entertainers that are sured by an extensive background check.

The Male 4 Male Party Package is the most straightforward way to have a stripper at your party. This package has one male entertainer do a high-energy striptease routine that is customized to fit your theme. Party themes include cop, cowboy, biker, construction worker, and flamin’ rainbow. The strippers are trained and ready to give the groom a special dance and then do crowd dancing for the entire party. If day drinking is more your thing, then check out the Boy Brunch Party Package to spice up a Saturday afternoon this spring and summer. The Boy Brunch Party Package adds lively entertainment to an otherwise-ordinary meal. This package costs $300 for one professional entertainer and $500 for two men sure to brighten up any party. 

Just because the grooms may be gay does not mean the entire party is, and plenty of bi guy couples get married, to. Different tastes can be accommodated in the Jack & Jill Party Package to make sure no guest goes un-entertained. This package costs $550 for both a man and woman performer. They start with a dance for the guest of honor then dive into fun, and sensual party games like whipped cream races getting everyone into a party mindset.

If your party is large, or you are a bit intimidated by the packages above, this is the perfect option for you. The Burlesque skit performance package puts on the perfect show that will leave everyone impressed. This package has a professionally choreographed Burlesque performance that is sure to entertain your audience. From the dancer’s moves, and gradual stripping down to ass-less chaps, to themed routines, including prince charming, a gladiator, and even an 18th-century aristocrat, the package costs only $350 for the main performer.

There is no need to worry about if the package you get will be to your tastes, as Bare Assets prioritizes direct communication with the dancers before the event. This communication allows for “your theme ideas to be brought to life for that special event.” The dancer will call you a week before the event to work out details, set expectations, and answer any questions so the party will be stress-free.

It is suggested that guests bring at least $20 in one-dollar bills to tip the performers. No need to stress if you do not have physical cash; dancers will have many bills you can buy through Venmo.

The performers are there to ensure your party is as fun as it possibly can be and are more than willing to work with you to make your bachelor party one to remember. 

Transportation

Bachelor parties are very on-the-go. Securing transportation is an important logistical aspect of party planning, but it also can be a highlight of the event. While of course, there are the options of Uber or a designated driver, bachelor party transportation deserves to
be a bit more out of the ordinary. Sunset Luxury Limos provides the perfect party on wheels offering fully stocked party buses, limos, SUVs, and more. Some of these come with disco floors, and stripper poles to ensure the fun on the go.

Meals

Denver has many great dining options, and there are many brewery tours where you can get both good beer, and a fun lesson in beer production. Blue Moon Brewing Company or Wynkoop Brewing Company are great options for all beer lovers. 

Le’Bakery Sensual Erotic Cakes is a gay-owned bakery that specializes in customized, and erotic cakes perfect for a gay bachelor party. With cakes ranging from wholesome all the way to raunchy its likely that they have something to fit the mood of your party. 

While there are many great dining options in Denver, the bachelor party festivities do not have to stop for food. Buff Butlers have recently gained popularity, and are a great way to make your meals memorable. Dinner time becomes so much more than eating when the servers not only mix cocktails and serve food, but participate in party games, host the event itself and do so all in minimal attire that is sure to grab the party’s attention. The decision is yours if you’d like your butler to wear black pants or shorts, a tuxedo vest, collars, or cuffs.

The butlers are sociable and ready to ensure the party is one to remember through both hospitality and flirtation. Their muscular physique ensures the party has a good view, while their charm and training in customer service ensures everyone enjoys themselves. The Bare Assets Buff Butlers party package costs $350 to have a buff butler at an event for an hour, with $100 more for each additional hour.

Learn more about Bare Assets on their website.

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