Guide to throwing a bad bachelor(ette) party
The bachelor(ette) party is, theoretically, the last night the bride/groom can really let loose. It’s customary for friends to throw the party, and to have a truly epic night, you have to plan. Here are some tips to get you started.
DO ask the bachelor(ette) what they want. While some people’s worst nightmare is a bachelor(ette) craft party or all-night video games, remember: This party is about the bride/groom. Consider their interests and really think about what will make them happy.
That being said, DO a little pushing. This is the one night in your lives designated to be scandalous and naughty. Brides/grooms get caught up in weddings stress and may want a low-key party. But sometimes, they need just a little nudge over the line. It’s about getting them out of their comfort zone and making them blush.
But, DON’T shove them over the line. If the hard limit is no strippers, don’t hire the whole Chippendales brigade. You want the bride/groom to have fun, not be mortified.
For the love of the wedding gods, DON’T have the party the night before the wedding. Give yourself some breathing room to let loose. No one wants to look hungover in their wedding pictures. Plus, movies like Bachelorette and The Hangover have taught us that you might need some wiggle room to solve problems created by the party.
DO get a little cheesy. While there’s a ton of ways to throw a lame party, it can be fun to be a bit corny. Consider playing some dirty games, coordinating outfits, truth or dare, a risqué scavenger hunt, or naughty gift bags filled with genital-shaped candy, shooters, cigars, and condoms.
DON’T do anything you’ll regret in the morning. Sure you’re kissing singlehood goodbye, but you don’t want to kiss your fiancé goodbye too. Remember to look, not touch. And stay away from any daredevil stunts. Full-body casts don’t photograph well.
What to DO:
Bachelor(ette) parties can be flexible to fit each bride/groom. Skip Las Vegas, and get creative to find the best option for your party. While there a plethora of bars and clubs to choose from in Colorado, here are some alternate activities you can try instead of or before hitting the dance floor. Don’t forget to mention it’s for a bachelor(ette) party; they might throw you some deals.
Get outside: Colorado is full of plenty of activities for the outdoorsy bride/groom. Hit the slopes for a snow bunny weekend or, when the weather improves, go for a scandalous camping weekend.
Go to the source: If bars aren’t your scene, head to a brewery tour or a wine tasting. See how your alcohol is made and get drunk in the process.
Take a class: It’s never a bad time to learn something new. You can find a private class in everything from trapeze to cooking to martial arts. You can even develop a new skill for your honeymoon like striptease or pole dancing.
Boudoir photo shoot: Get dolled up and dressed down. Embrace your sexy side and take some saucy pictures for your significant other to enjoy before or after the wedding.
