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Sexpert: Trans* dating tips

I’m older and grew up surrounded by 1950s sensibilities. I’m a cisgender heterosexual male. I have been seeing a trans woman.

Don’t yuck my yummy open relationship

There’s no single way to create a happy partnership — the dynamics are as unique to everyone as fingerprints.

‘I’ve lost interest in sex’

First let me say that this isn’t just you — hundreds of thousands of people, of all genders and orientations, are in this boat. Our sex drives go up and down throughout our lives.

Ask the Sexpert: ‘I’ve lost interest in sex’

Shanna answers a letter from someone who has lost their sex drive, and gives advice on getting it back

‘Gay sex 101’ for straight guys and lesbians

I armed myself with his questions and ventured out to a coffee shop in Midtown, where my favorite gay duo (Steve and Owen) sipped, laughed and answered with gusto.

Ask the Sexpert: (Real) lesbian porn

I have good news for you — there is such a thing as queer porn.

The speed of dating

The whole point of dating is to find your match – the person you’re supposed to be with for life.

Ask the Sexpert: Pursuing sexual fantasies with a partner

I want to share a fantasy with my girlfriend that I kind of want to make into a reality, but I’m scared of her judging me or telling me I’m weird.

Does ‘female-friendly’ porn exist?

Videos found on fan favorites like Youporn and Pornhub are more commonly than not directed at heterosexual males.

Ask the Sexpert: The unorthodox orgasm

Dear Shanna,
I’ve heard that women can have four types of orgasms. Is it true? If so, what are the types?
– Wondering in Wittier